Kailee turned two early this year. A lot of people have been asking me if she's already in pre-school, I tell them no, because I feel that she's too young. That's only one of the reasons why I don't want her to go to school early - because I feel that she's too young (I attended pre-school at 4 and I turned out okay), another thing is that I hear that kids who attend pre-school get sick more often. I also hear of incidents where kids hurt one another - and I don't want that to happen to Kailee.
The bully-ing issue has been up and about in the last few years. I think it's just now, that the problem is being dealt with. I guess then, the school, parents and society were all in denial that it has been happening here in our country. To address this bully-ing problem, my Panget and I agreed that when Kailee starts to go to school, we'd teach her how to fight back. My inlaws don't agree to this, but my Panget and I do, because she needs to learn how to defend herself when the situation calls for it. I'm sure some would say 'why retailiate?' well, for me - it would be better than just telling the proper authorities and wait for their 'investigation' that would take, weeks? But that's just me. I'm not saying that my style is right, but I am hoping that this will work for me eventually.
Recently, I learned of a friend's daughter being a punching bag by another kid in their pre-school. Mind you this pre-school is quite a prestigious one, and I am surprised that their unofficial statement was that 'it was an accident'. But can accidents happen repeatedly? This incident makes me think
Pre-school doesn't come cheap, so when I hear stories like these, it makes me wonder - why the hell does that (still) happen, in a pre-school - A PRE-SCHOOL? Where apparently, the kids to teacher ratio is small? Don't they have precautions or SOP on how to deal with these things? I always had the impression that kids require more sets of eyes in a classroom - but I guess, I was wrong.
So, there - am I an abnormal parent for being afraid? For being too protective? Am I stalling my child's progress with my fear? Ah, I'm so confused..